Each decision I take is my responsibility. I’m then open to the consequences: positive or negative.
My false perception: I decided to trust someone, this person made a mistake, I’ve thrown all the fault on him, I blamed him, probably to make myself irresponsible. Only by giving him my trust, I was not accepting any mistake from him, I was telling myself that he could not disappoint me. I was simply not open to MY RESPONSIBILITY TO HAVE CHOSEN to trust him.
My new perception: taking responsibility for my action is to open up and accept the consequences of anything that could happen; celebrations as well as problems together with the other person, not against the other person, it is counter productive and it doesn’t solve anything. I’m trusting that we can find a solution together more peacefully and efficiently in this way.